i wana have… just one friend who’s a bit fem… just one…,… don’t even have to be close friends.,… just someone I may see sometime…
Have you looked into vrchat?
I… tried it. many times.
but its always just super loud and annoying and stuff and its exhausting doing VR stuff and… and stuff… and also ita proprietary and… imean, at that point Lemmy and matrix r better.
i dont wanna be… “hanging out” on a platform like that…
also… I gotta be not loudly talking which is quite the constraint…
Don’t give up. I run a nonprofit for queer men in the South, where you wouldn’t expect one. We’ve picked up a couple of femboys who both thought they wouldn’t fit in, and everyone accepted them immediately, and they met each other, and now they have femboy friends. Even in a small conservative state where there’s no femboy culture.
Unfortunately without orgs like ours I think Grindr and the like are the best option and those aren’t fun places for anyone, but they can still work, you just have to ignore a lot of shit.
PS if you’re a queer man (including femboys) who wants to see something like this in your area, let me know, we are trying to find the right people to start satellite chapters. We have a working model, just needs a bit of time investment each week to get running.
…,… isnt grindr for men >~< ,.,…, aaaaaa
Yeah, it looks like he thought you were talking about getting femboy friends because of your being a femboy. Slight misunderstanding lmao
but im noooot >o< aaaaaa
