• velma@sh.itjust.works
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    10 days ago

    Unasked for opinions from everywhere when you have the ability to grow and birth babies.

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      10 days ago

      Yup! My ex had this happen to her all the time especially from a church community we were part of. She would always say her doctor advised her not to have kids and if that didn’t work she’d go into detail about her body and why the doctor said she’d have problems carrying a child. Most would stop there but there were still some that would give her the “don’t you believe in miracles if you have faith?” type responses. We left the church after it kept happening.

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      10 days ago

      When people perceive you have the ability as well. Tons of women who can’t give birth who get asked awkward and uncomfortable questions all the time.