artist is PapadamnNoire

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    14 days ago

    I used to think I was a hot commodity in the gay community until I realized it was only the ugly old guys hitting on me. Never the hot young ones. Let me tell you, my illusions were shattered. But then I got older and the young hot ones started giving me fuck-me eyes and now my illusions are back again

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      14 days ago

      Sounds like the whole time you were/are the cup of tea of many people, even if they weren’t yours :)

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      As a 40 something bi man who’s single again for the first time in 18 years, I’ve been shocked by the number of twinks who have assertively pursued me. Never in a million years would I have anticipated this

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      Sometimes a fine wine needs a little more time on the shelf. Time to pop that cork baby

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      I’m 53 and what the kids call omni. Once I hit my forties i was suddenly getting hit on by young CIS men, young CIS women, young trans men and young non-binary folk. Not young trans women though. Only trans women close to my age showed interest, and only if I pursued first.

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        12 days ago

        Hey just fyi cis isn’t an acronym, just a normal word :) it just means “the same” or “together” (referring to ones gender and sex)

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          Thanks. I do know but the capitalization is my phone’s autocorrect. CIS is shorthand for a system we use at work. So is CUM for cumulative and HEAD for head-end. There is a monitoring module in one of our client’s called “CIS CUM HEAD Flow”. I am certain that was on purpose, but that’s it’s name. E-mail alerts subject lines stating “CIS CUM HEAD FLOW above threshold” are a thing.

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            12 days ago

            That’s hilarious. Your comment reads as serious (and I believe you) but on some level I feel you’ve got to be joking!

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              Oh, it’s true but also, I have no doubt it’s someone’s joke. No way that was an accident.

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      13 days ago

      it seems alot of gay couple in my area, 1 of them is always older40+ and the other one is a 20+ usually buff/hot something year old. probably looking for a daddy figure, or look at a financially well off partner? other than that its mostly people the same age usually for younger gay couples. gay adult entertainment might have something to do with that perception.