• The Picard Maneuver@lemmy.worldOP
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    5 days ago

    I don’t know if it came from elsewhere first, but it’s not very common nowadays in the US.

    It’s old-fashioned, and it’s not like the woman’s parents have the authority to say ‘no’. It’s more like a gesture of humility, then a “we accept you into our family” sort of thing. If someone does it these days, it’s probably in the south and with a really traditional family who they’re trying to impress.