• vaultdweller013@sh.itjust.works
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    4 days ago

    Amongst my kin it’s usually less the dad in particular and moreso that the dad is the embassador for the rest of the men of the family. Basically doing a check before the proper introductions, the women folks have their own rituals.

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      4 days ago

      Good for you and whatever culture you come from. But your personal anecdote is more or less irrelevant to the discussion at hand.

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        3 days ago

        If you want anything other than personal anecdotes then you might have better luck doing a study than asking people in a forum. Most people just have their personal anecdotes and personal speculation.

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        4 days ago

        California Scots, so whatd be recognized as Redneck to most people. The whole Scots thing is probably the defining factor here since telling our women kin no is liable to get you an ass beating or poisoned, assuming they don’t just ignore you.