In both cases, the tax is paid from the money that otherwise could come to a human, it’s just business is deducting it automatically.
Sales tax is paid by the customer, not the business. I … don’t know why you think it’s automatically deducted by the business? Unless you mean B2B purchases

The merchat is the fiduciary agent, sure, but the customer still has to pay the tax. It’s out of their own pocket. You’re needlessly complicating it.