• balsoft@lemmy.ml
    10·
    10 hours ago

    I made a really cozy and usability-focused setup like 10 years ago, and since I made it with NixOS+home-manager I’m just carrying it over with me. It is going strong after three device swaps, two moves to a new country, and meeting a partner, with some minor changes (i3 -> sway, Nord theme -> custom base16-based, pulseaudio -> pipewire, etc)

  • Nasan@sopuli.xyz
    6·
    11 hours ago

    A relationship that forces you to use a GUI when you already live in CLI is a textbook example of a toxic relationship.

  • tiny_hedgehog@piefed.socialEnglish
    271·
    22 hours ago

    I don’t get it. Is it saying that when you’re single you have time to tweak and fiddle your desktop, when you’re in a relationship, you don’t and just use the default?

      • MinnesotaGoddam@lemmy.world
        61·
        14 hours ago

        huh. i have the left monitor desktop customized to my liking, my wife has the right one customized to her liking. we have shortcuts on each screen to make it the primary monitor depending on who’s using it.

        • whimsy@lemmy.zipEnglish
          3·
          5 hours ago

          Would you mind sharing a bit more about your setup and how y’all use it? I’m just curious, not gonna give any unsolicited advice

          • MinnesotaGoddam@lemmy.world
            1·
            4 hours ago

            it’s been so long since i set it up i don’t remember much. it’s a windows machine, i had to download a utility so i could set up a batch utility to change my primary monitor without going into settings.

          • MinnesotaGoddam@lemmy.world
            3·
            6 hours ago

            we could, but my wife is not the most into computers. a big reason we have not switched to linux is i barely remember how to use that CLI. I could not coach her through it right now at all. she did not like having to log out to get into her account, and what we have works. there are probably less condescending ways to mention computer functions, but this is the programming community i guess

            • anguo@piefed.caEnglish
              21·
              5 hours ago

              My apologies, I didn’t mean to be condescending, just meant this as a light jab! Due to the original post, I assumed you were on linux, which is pushing the use of user accounts pretty aggressively.

              • MinnesotaGoddam@lemmy.world
                11·
                4 hours ago

                nah sorry i’m just overly sensitive today, it’s been a sucky day week i forget. i shoulda recognized the jab for what it was

      • texture@lemmy.world
        1·
        13 hours ago

        but thats just a single open app in the top frame? btop i believe

        edit – oop after i zoomed in so i could see the gaps i realise its 3 apps. btop, htop (redundant) and yazi or ranger or superfile.

        woudlnt the real implication be that the top panel is using a window manager and the bottom one is using a mint alternative?

          • texture@lemmy.world
            2·
            10 hours ago

            if im not mistaken the top one is just archcraft (perhaps i3) default install, i dont see any customization.

            regardless im struggling to grasp what the meme is trying to convey. :)

            • balsoft@lemmy.ml
              2·
              10 hours ago

              I think the meme is a cliche of “haha you are in a relationship so your partner takes up all your time and you don’t have any time for your hobbies”. Which sounds like a pretty toxic relationship tbh