• CompactFlax@discuss.tchncs.de
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    6 days ago

    Some part of this is the male influencers, and some part of this is kids being ignorant. But being a straight woman in that age group must really suck.

    • dhork@lemmy.world
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      6 days ago

      I’m starting to think that being a straight woman just sucks at any point in time, because young men are not the smartest ones on the block. Today’s young women, though, realize that there’s an off ramp.

      • badgermurphy@lemmy.world
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        4 days ago

        Almost nobody is the smartest, unfortunately. Good relationships have always been hard to find, and the more discerning you are, the harder it is.

        I think we are seeing that more today because historically, marriage was the default and the fact that most of them were bad for one or both participants was known by everyone but never addressed. See the entire genre of “wife bad” boomer humor as Exhibit A.

      • DagwoodIII@piefed.social
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        6 days ago

        Even 100 years ago there was social pressure on young men to learn how to behave properly. Being kicked out of the local church meant that you couldn’t hang with your friends and would probably have to leave town.

        Today, you can spend 20 hours a day online, hearing exactly what you want to hear.

    • Omega@piefed.blahaj.zone
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      6 days ago

      There is no better proof that one doesn’t choose their sexuality than the existence of cisgender heterosexual women. I mean, hell, transgender heterosexual women, good luck to them, holy fuck.

      • drunkpostdisaster@lemmy.world
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        5 days ago

        If all us men died on Nov 24 thr world would be a better place.

        That fact will never leave me. I honestly hate myself for existing.

        • ChristerMLB@piefed.social
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          4 days ago

          I dunno, by that way of thinking there are plenty of ways of dividing up humanity and saying “if all those people died, the world would be a better place” - I don’t know how constructive it is, though. There’s nothing about being a man that prevents us from being good people, though there may be some things that make it harder

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              4 days ago

              I think I know what you mean. There is a lot of focus and attention being put on the shittier kind of masculinity these days – by some because they hate it, by others because they want to convince the world that it’s actually great and the key to unlocking a golden age.

              Even though we don’t talk about better kinds of masculinity, I think that most people just know intuitively that they exist, though… unless they’ve just had horrible luck in life.

        • batshit@lemmings.world
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          5 days ago

          Don’t project your self hate onto everyone? If all men died all humans will die, along with many many domesticated species across the world. Does that sound like a “better place”?

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    6 days ago

    Interesting fact totally ignored by the click-bait headline:

    Among women, 18% of gen Z and 6% of baby boomers agreed.

    So, among women, support for traditional gender roles tripled.

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      4 days ago

      Those women are about to learn the hard way why women had to fight for their freedom from this oppressive system. Have fun with that domestic violence and financial prison