Dude. Me too. Not saying some of those were from feeling pressured when I was younger , but a handful was from genuine (tho fleeting) interest.

My logic is, I rarely (very rarely) feel that way so when I do and there isn’t any obvious reason why I shouldn’t (i.e they are in a relationship, or they are a co worker ) I go for it.

My perspective: . Life is only once. Enjoy yourself (or someone else) when you can.