Wow, the comments went off the rails here.
I don’t usually do this, but I’m locking this post. Too much fighting.
Lol, high body count is 5? I’m a social awkward manlet and mines higher than that.
It’s just this cartoon a century later:
I have no issue with any of this except history of cheating. That just screams terrible person, male or female.
For me it’s the tattoos. I like sluts. I’m not that jealous.
She didn’t text back, eh?
To be fair, a history of cheating in inexcusable.
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No, having a literal history of cheating is just inexcusable, regardless of gender. Break up if it’s a shitty relationship, or just don’t get in a monogamous relationship in the first place. It’s 2026, open relationships are a thing, or you can be single and fuck as many people as you want, etc. It’s the lying and doing it behind your trusting partner’s back that’s the problem, not the polygamy.
And if you want an open relationship and your potential future partner doesn’t… Well maybe find someone who shares your views instead of cheating on someone who doesn’t?
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Sounds like what someone who doesn’t respect the boundaries of a relationship would say.
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🤣🤣🤣
Have a great day cheater!
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Honestly. Can’t get it up.
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No
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You may not like it, but this is what peak performance looks like.
OK, “uses family court” killed me.
These fucking wannabe dictators…
Where the fuck is this guy where “the majority of [women] are like this” and how do I get there? 🥺 - Phoebe (it/its)
Damn that’s troublesome, terrible, unbelievable, where can i avoid this, an address would help
Tatoo parlor
5 is a high body count??? What a bunch of enormous fucking losers lmao
I’m Asexual and mine is higher than 5.
Dude. Me too. Not saying some of those were from feeling pressured when I was younger , but a handful was from genuine (tho fleeting) interest.
My logic is, I rarely (very rarely) feel that way so when I do and there isn’t any obvious reason why I shouldn’t (i.e they are in a relationship, or they are a co worker ) I go for it.
My perspective: . Life is only once. Enjoy yourself (or someone else) when you can.
Serious question out of curiosity, is it like a mental arousal only thing, or occasional sexual arousal thing? If I’m out of bounds I’m sorry. If you prefer not to answer or if this makes you uncomfortable, please don’t bother answering.
Sexuality is a complex thing for anyone. Regardless of whatever identity they use for themselves.
I have actually a lot of friends who are asexual-ish. Once you are out with yours, you find that other people are more open with you about this.
For some people they still want a romantic partner but have little to no interest in sexual acts with others.
For others , like myself, I have no interest in romantic partners. And very little to no interest in sexual acts with others.
Some asexuals have normal or even high libido but don’t feel that emotion directed towards others. I would describe this as like wanting a snack but you open the fridge and there isn’t anything in there you want.
Some have very low to no libido.
Some people who are very picky about partners and take a long time to feel comfortable, to be sexual, also sometimes call themselves asexuals.
I’m not here to gatekeep but that really does sound like average sexual identity for most people. But if someone wants to use it for that, it’s their choice.
There are like 10 sub terms for asexuals but I personally find that superfluous. Everyone is different. I don’t need a special label. If I want to explain myself, I will.
Labels are limiting. And they sometimes make someone else think they get your whole deal when they don’t.
I appreciate the response. Ty.
I would describe this as like wanting a snack but you open the fridge and there isn’t anything in there you want.
I’m normally a pretty horny guy, but I feel like I never want to touch myself again after seeing this.
That perfectly illustrated my feelings.
I know, right? That’s only barely cracking into serial killer territory. How am I supposed to respect a woman if she’s not an accomplished and highly experienced assassin?
Right? Fuckin amateur hour over here
5 is a high body count only if you’re a woman. If you’re a man it’s basically nothing and you should aim for at least 100 body count.
Viewing “uses family court” as a negative is such a self report for that guy lol. ‘I can’t believe my ex is making legally binding agreements that I can’t unilaterally change!’ energy
Yeah, he told on himself. I’m surprised he didn’t include “calls 911 to report domestic violence.”
The only negative I see on here is “history of cheating.”
I could also see how “Girl Boss” can be negative, but not in a way he means it. He just means women who believe in working outside the home.
Edit: ok, smoking too - if we are talking cigarettes or meth. Smoke all the weed you want.
Depending on how “refuses to cook” comes across, that’s a negative in my book. I won’t want to cook every meal, I’d burn out. It’s a requirement that they are at least willing to do it sometimes. (I like cooking, but some days are just overly draining and I need help)
Cooking because it’s your “traditional role as a woman:” no
Cooking because it’s fun and the Food Network made you overconfident: yes
“women belong in the kitchen”? WRONG
We’re cooking 5kg of Lasagna for tonight’s gathering and we need all hands on deck
I love being Italian sometimes
That’s just a normal pan size amount of lasagna? 30x20 or 13x9 in freeedom units. Are people wasting time making small pan sizes? Lasagna is amazing leftovers.
I make the 13x9 FU pan, but I only cook for myself.
Ouch, Friday I am going to try something because seriouseats made it seem reasonable, and I’m feeling called out
I dated a rich girl for a while who didnt cook, none of her family could. They had a part time maid who would cook for them a bit but mostly ate out and brought home extra meals. Like literally, every time they went out they’d order a couple extra meals to go.
At one point the mom was sad she couldnt get shrimp scampi anywhere in town. So I cooked dinner for them, because NBD. They thought it was magic, doubly so because im a guy. I litterally had to remove the plastic wrapping off the inside of the oven door to make garlic bread, and all the pots and pans still had stickers in the bottom.
At one pojnt I also had to teach my 38 year old GF how to operate a washer and dryer.
Oh they definitely mean cook for THEM, lol.
No female friends isn’t really negative but is never positive, to be fair.
“History of leaving me for a safer and more loving relationship.”
“History of cheating” doesn’t necessarily mean “cheater.” To those on a trajectory to make a mistake, far better lessons come from those who made mistakes and can explain how to avoid them than those who can only say, “don’t make mistakes.” I’m sure there’s a better way to say this than the clumsy words I’ve chosen.
This guy dreams of the times where.women were barefoot and pregnant, basically trained to be slaves to men.
Obviously, this loser sees his only chance of female companionship in someone submissive, as he seems incapable of a real partnership.
All of this translates down to “she doesn’t act like a combination mother/servant/virgin/nymphomaniac specifically for me and only me without ever complaining or asking for anything”
What a godamned cry baby
I got, “I am insecure in my masculinity and I need a subservient creature that I will not respect to feel powerful”
